When you think that your spouse is having an affair, you begin looking for different signs of cheating. Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?
To find out if you have a cheating spouse you may not need to hire a private investigator nor invest in expensive surveillance equipment – as a beginner you should look for quite obvious signs of the cheating Spouse.
Below are the most common signs that your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband might be cheating on you. Generally these signs are displayed unknowingly by the cheater, therefore, it is easy to spot these sudden changes in behavior. These signs should only be used as a tool to gauge your suspicions. You will want to investigate further to gain proof before speaking to them about the situation.
One of the easiest ways to gain proof is through monitoring their computer activities. In today’s age we have found that majority of spouses use the computer and Internet as a means of cheating, communicating with the cheater, etc
Below are some “Signs of a cheating spouse”, wife, husband, boyfriend, or girlfriend … FIND OUT NOW!
When your spouse suddenly begins to treat you extremely nice; more than the usual.
When your spouse does not want sex or makes excuses to not have sex.
Arrives home smelling of perfume/cologne or another person’s body.
Begins to put distance between you or shows a lack of interest in what has been the routine with few, if any, excuses for the change in their behavior.
When they will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may give password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes. Or they stay up to “work” or “play a game” on the computer after you go to bed.

Excessive use of internet, especially late at night, is a red flag.
When he/she treats you abusively or with disrespect or may begin to find fault in everything you do in an attempt to justify his/her affair.
When he/she goes straight into the shower or bath on arrival at home.
When he has lipstick or strange hairs on his clothing or in the car. Finding strange numbers, condoms can also be clues.
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When they begin to make requests or suggest wild play during sex which you have never done before. They may also show an increased interest in sex or sexual things.
Breaks their routine at work and home for no logical reason.
Becomes suddenly forgetful; thoughts are elsewhere.
When your partner’s friends make complaint of sudden changes in his/her behavior.
When you notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.
When they ignore or criticize your affection.
When you notice credit card charges for gifts (such as florist or jewelry) that you didn’t receive.
When they begin to make sudden and excessive purchases of clothes or an unexplained change in clothing style. Purchase of a sexy underwear or lingerie may be a hint.
When you notice an unexplained increase in ATM withdrawals.
When you notice an increased attention to losing weight or paying more attention to their appearance.
Starts lying without a reason.
When they begin to volunteer to go to the post office, rushes to check the mail before you do or perhaps without even telling you.
Gets mysterious phone calls or when they leave the room to talk on the phone.
When they start exercising – going to the Gym, often at “odd” times.
Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
When they start to buy new clothes or jewelry for someone who is special for them..
When they use a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
Coming home at odd times with no explanation.
When they set up a separate cell phone account that is billed to their office.
Suddenly your spouse starts to try new love techniques.
Suddenly wants more sex, more often.
When your spouse doesn’t pay attention in the home activities or is away from home at nights  on trips, more than previously.

Your spouse doesn’t seem interested in “you”. There’s always something else to do rather than “talk”!

There are changes in wake up time and sleeping times.

When he/she insists or tells to keep the toys of child away from the car.

If you are suspicious you can hire a private investigator but even before that its better to consult an attorney. By Private-Investigator-Detective.com

Ruth Houston
October 5, 2007
Sooner or later, everyone who’s married or in a committed relationship will have to deal with the issue of infidelity. Whether you suspect your spouse or significant other of cheating on you or not, here are some important things you should know about signs of infidelity. They may come in handy one day.

Listed below are 14 things about signs of infidelity that even surprise – even to people who consider themselves knowledgeable about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs.

1.Telltale signs of infidelity first appear while the infidelity is still in the planning stage. Spotting the signs early on, means you may be able to stop the affair before it starts.

2.Every cheater, male or female, will display subtle signs of infidelity they’re not even aware of, and thus would never think to cover up.

3.The majority of infidelity victims either miss, or misinterpret most of the subtle signs of infidelity that are staring them right in the face. A knowledge of what to look for will keep you from being the last to know.

4.If you know what to look for, you can find countless signs of infidelity using nothing more than your eyes, your ears and your personal knowledge of your spouse or significant other. You don’t really need surveillance equipment or a private investigator to find the telltale signs.

5.Cheating men and women are usually successful at hiding the obvious and most widely known signs of infidelity. It’s the subtle signs of infidelity, the signs most people overlook, that will expose the cheater every time.

6.There are certain signs of infidelity that can help you determine the identity of the Other Woman or Other Man. Knowing what to look for is the key.

7.There are 21 major categories of infidelity signs, each comprised of from 19 to 92 specific telltale signs. For a list describing the 21 categories, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “21 categories-ac” in the subject line.

8.If your spouse or significant other is really cheating, you will find clusters of telltale signs from several of the above mentioned 21 categories all at once — not just a few cheating signs.

9.Where there’s one telltale sign, there are always dozens of other signs of infidelity just waiting to be found. Knowing what to look for is the key.

10.The sooner you spot the signs of infidelity, the better your chances are of saving your marriage — or of protecting yourself legally and financially in case the infidelity leads to divorce. You can’t afford to be the last to know.

11.Most of the telltale signs of infidelity apply to both cheating women and cheating men.

12.The future of your marriage or relationship will often depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs of infidelity in time.

13.Certain signs of infidelity can give you important details about the affair — what kind of affair it is, what stage the affair is in, where or how often they meet, how much of a threat the affair poses to your marriage or relationship, and more.

14.A betrayed spouse or significant other who knows what to look for can find signs of infidelity that a private investigator might overlook.

You can safeguard your marriage or relationship by becoming familiar with the signs of infidelity – not just the obvious signs, but the subtle signs, as well. If you’re not sure what to look for, you’ll miss a lot. By the time you find out, it may be too late.

When it comes to signs of infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, knowing what to look for is the key. Having a good infidelity reference book in your personal library can help. Of the many infidelity books on the market, Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs is the only one that lists practically every known sign of infidelity. Written by the infidelity expert who founded InfidelityAdvice.com, this book even includes the subtle signs that people usually overlook. Whether you suspect infidelity or not, a knowledge of the signs to look for, and the 14 facts above, may be instrumental in helping you save your marriage or relationship on day. And you’ll never have to suffer the embarrassment or humiliation of being the last to know.

For a FREE tip sheet describing the 21 categories of infidelity signs mentioned in points number 7 and number 8 above, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “21 categories-ac” in the subject line.

© 2007 Ruth Houston