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Here are step by step instructions on how to successfully find someone. And in fairness to those who need their privacy we have included this section.
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- Hire a professional. Most pros will be able to find someone relatively quickly and sometimes for less than $100. Professionals have a wide range of research sources that they have cultivated over the years, including investigative databases, other investigators, and countless other sources of information. But, if you don’t want to pay a professional or pay for an investigative information database AND if you have A LOT of time your hands and some good common sense, read on.
- Gather as much information on the person you wish to locate.
- Start a file. Almost all professionals begin with a file in some form.
- Write down all of the person’s identifying information: Full name and any aliases, date of birth (DOB), previous addresses, Social Security number, driver’s license number, automobiles, license plates, telephone numbers, places of employment and those telephone numbers, note occupation (most states require licensing for certain professions), names of friends and relatives, places the person likes to socialize, and anything else you come up with.
- Begin with the phone book or directory assistance. I’ve been paid well to dial 411.
- Write down all the persons with the same surname as your subject; e.g., if you are trying to locate John Doe in Anytowne, USA, write down all the Does, they could be relatives.
- Call those people. Here’s where we get into some interesting stuff. Say you won a small claims judgment and are trying to locate your debtor. Your debtor may very well be attempting to hide. Now, you can’t very well call up any one of those Does and say,”This stinkin’ guy with your same last name owes me money! Now tell me where the no good looser lives!” In a scenario like this one, not only have you scared the bejesus out of some poor Doe who may or may not be related to your debtor, but you potentially have scared off your debtor, making him skip town. There’s a technique that professionals use. Investigative Journalists are very familiar with it, too. It’s called the “ruse“, or “pretext“. It’s our First Amendment right to lie. A little pretext goes along way. Let’s replay the above scenario again, but this time we use the “ruse“, or “pretext“: “Hi! This may sound strange to you. But I’m trying to find John Doe . . . Oh, my name is Whatever . . . yeah, me and John go way back. School, ball games . . . (You have to be careful what you say here ,for obvious reasons) , worked together in the construction business. Haven’t seen him in ages! What’s he been up to? Hey, do you have his number by any chance? Where’d I get your number. Directory assistance. Yeah, he spoke about you last year when we went fishing. I’d love to get a hold of him. Thanks a lot. Now you take care.” You have to be creative, but not outrageous. Assume the person you are calling is intelligent and cautious; they could also very well be rude. Keep this in mind, too, “You can attract more flies with honey than you can with vinegar”. Ask yourself what you would believe if someone called you asking for the same information. Write what you are going to say down on paper. Read it back aloud to yourself until you get it right. Then make your call.
- There are laws in most states that forbid a person from representing themselves as the following: law enforcement, any government official or employee, and legal counsel. I would go as far as to not recommend the use of an established business such as AT&T, Microsoft, NBC, Planet Hollywood, Hard Copy . . . Get the idea? There may or may not be criminal ramifications, depending where you live, but there may very well be civil ramifications. These guys can have attorneys crawling in every crevice of your life!
- What if I don’t know what city the person lives in? Or state? Have you contacted all friends and relatives that you know? Are you sure? Are you positive you didn’t overlook one possibility? Okay, this where we start getting into the research part of the gig. Ask yourself about your subject. What kind of person is this? Does this person have to have a license to run a particular kind of business in a state? Where would this persons parents live? Where might this person live?
- end of part one . . .
Tip:
When you call directory assistance always ask for the persons’s address, whether you need it or not. Why? This buys you more time with the operator. If you don’t, you’ll just hear the familiar,”Hold for the number please . . .”. This is very helpful if you are searching a common name like John Smith - and there will be many John Smiths. Directory assistance is required to give you up to 3 names, addresses, and telephone numbers per call. Take advantage of this. It will save you time and money. Also, if your operator is not performing well, ask for a supervisor. Supervisors are a little better at searching the directory. by infoguys
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